If you are not happy, and when you are ready... leave that team. JJ should be fun and no stress. Do not let others spoil your Joy. There are so many teams now that are looking for players to participate in comps, coffees and bushes. They either have members leave or members that don't play for whatever reason and would love a player that wants to play and work together to achieve whatever goal that their team is striving for. If you haven't already join some JJ private groups, so many out there on Facebook. There are so many posting ads and looking for like minded players. I was unhappy and stressed, it took me a long time but I left the team that I was with since the beginning and after trying a few teams so far I found a team which I like, they work together and It's only been a week but it looks like a keeper. Good luck, I hope you find what you're looking for in a team. Trust me they are out there you just have to be brave and find them!